YES I AM MRS PERFECT and it bothers you because?

 I am one of the people who keeps my house very tidy at all the time (only exception is when 8 babies with their mums invade my house for a “baby party”) who has a make up on when I leave the house, who never leaves house in tracksuit bottoms, whos baby pram is clean, who goes out a lot with her baby, who cooks, cleans ect. 

  
 I am not saying it to show off … I am saying it it because for some reason it pisses off lots of people. Why would it bother you? It doesn’t bother me if you don’t do any of those things ! 

 What you need to realise is that it is a hard work to do all of it when you have a little babie ! When you sit and watch your TV  while drinking coffee I am already making breakfast, having shower and getting dress. When your baby is napping and you are resting or trying to catch up on your sleep, I most of the time are cooking, cleaning, washing, having shower ect. And yes I do have a bad days as all of us do but I make sure that they happen very rarely. 

 I don’t judge anyone for having messy house, not doing make up or not having perfect hair. I don’t pass any sarcastic or nasty comments, so you keep yours to yourself ! 

KEEP IN TOUCH DAY … More like the worst day of my life !!!

Keep in touch day at work … We all need to do it in a build up to the maternity leave finishing (can’t even think about it!!!!!!!). So today is the day that I need to leave my baby and go for few hours to work !!!!  Leaving the house and saying my goodbye was one of the hardest things in my life ! I have left Chloe with her dad and grandfather which is making it much easier …. Right? So why was I in tears leaving the house ??????  It’s so so so hard … I can’t even think about how will I be able to go back to work full time ???? Leave Chloe in the nursery or only with grandparents without my husband checking that Chloe is ok ??? 

 On one hand I just want to shout : I QUIT, I DONT WANT TO WORK !  I want to be at home withy baby …. On the other hand I know that it’s good for her to be surrounded by other people, and that I go back to work so she can have everything that she needs and wants… There is also this small part of me thinking that I nee to think about my future and my carrier …. 

BEING A MUM JUST GOT WHOLE LOT MORE DIFFICULT 

  

Bigger bigger bigger each day ! 

We are 9 months old today !!! That means that she is older than the time she spent in my belly! For some reason 9 months feels as important as 6 months. Quite emotional! Where did this time go? Didn’t I just gave birth to her ????  

 
What did I get as a present from her ? 3 sleepless nights in the row while 2nd tooth is coming through ! 

  

All ABOUT WEANING BY AGA 😁

How did you find weaning your baby? Was it really exciting? OH YES, was it lots of fun? OH YES, was it making you really proud of your baby? OH YES, was it confusing ? HELL YES!!!

 What did I found confusing ? 

-With what food should I start weaning ?

-How much food should I be giving and how much milk?

-How often should I introduce new food?

-When should I increase solid food from one meal to two?

-Should I give water to my baby?

Guess what? there is as many opinions as there is about sleeping,bringing up babies,ways of parenting ect ! I had no idea what is the right way to do it and it was affecting how excited I was about starting Chloe on her food. 

WHAT SHOULD BE THE FIRST FOOD?

 There is a lot of different opinions: Baby rice, baby porridge, fruits  (for example:Apple,Bannana or Pear), Vegetable (for exapmple Carrot, Sweet potato).

 I have reed lots about it and have found so many different opinions about it. I decided to go with NHS guidance (which by the way isn’t clear at all) which says that you can start on any of the above 😊. My plan was to start with baby rice then go in to porridge then a fruits and vegetables. 

I found baby rice a total waste of money and time. The whole idea of weaning is to introduce new textures and flavours, baby rice is very watery and doesn’t have any flavour! 

After trying baby rice once I moved in to strawberry porridge which Chloe enjoyed very much and then to very simple vegetable and fruit purée . I started on fruits and vegetables pretty much straight away.

HOW MUCH FOOD SHOULD I BE GIVING ?

 When I reed about weaning it said that baby will eat a one spoonful of food on the beginning….. Not true! Chloe started with eating round 3 tbsp of food. I bought those cute cubes to store her food and haven’t used it because the portion was way to small. I let Chloe decide how much she wanted, I would feed her till she didn’t want it. Trust me your baby will let you know when it has had enough. 

 In my baby cook book next to each recipe it says how many portions will be made; this was very helpful, especially in the very beginning .

 When it comes to milk I have kept all of Chloe’s milk feeds and introduced solid food in between her milk. 

HOW OFFTEN SHULD I INTRODUCE NEW FOOD. 

 As with everything there is a lot of different informations. Some say that you should give baby one food for a week, some say you should do it for 3 days and some that you should be trying new things daily. I went with the last approach and started giving Chloe lots of different foods. 

First week was very basic : Apple, Carrot, Porridge, Pear, Sweet Potatoe, Bannana. Second week I started doing a very simple mixes of fruits and vegetables :Apple & Pear, Bannana & Avocado , Apple & Parsnip, Sweet Potato & Carrot, Carrot & Buternat. On week 3 I started to give Chloe different vegetables (Broccoli, Corn, Peas, Spinach) and fruits (Strawberry, Mango, Blueberries). Week 4 which we just started I started introducing chicken and more complex meals, it’s now more of a grown up food 😊

WHEN I SHOULD INCREASE SOLID FOOD?

 We have started on 3 tbsp per 1 time a day for a 2 weeks. Then we started on 2 meals a day for a week. In week 3 I started to give Chloe her meal fallowed by desert (4tbsp of vegetables, 3tbsp of the desert). 

 Again it’s pretty impossible to find any information about what you should do. I decided to fallow a meal plan from my baby cooking book (which I very much recommend) and monitor how much Chloe wanted to eat.

SHOULD I BE GIVING WATER TO MY BABY?

 Again it’s not very clear. Some information says that you should start introducing free flow baby cup and give water. Other say that baby gets enough water from the breast milk. Ideal solution seems like giving milk in the cup 😁. Seems like a bit of water won’t do any harm. Just remember that water needs to boiled and cooled. 

 It is very confusing if you are a new parent to know what is the best way to wean baby but it is so so so much fun and I am enjoying it so much ! 

Now I have become one of THOSE parents ….

You know when you are siting on the plane trying to sleep and there is this baby screaming like crazy ? You are ok about it but after 2-3 minutes you start looking to check what is wrong with this baby…. After another minute or two you start questioning if the mother is doing anything to stop it… After another 2 minutes you are just pissed off … This was me … No not me getting angry … It was me with the crying baby!!!!  

Yesterday we flown to Poland for Chloe’s Christening. She was perfect at the take off and through the whole flight. We have given Chloe dummy a bit to late at the landing of the plane which meant that hear ears started hurting and she was crying for good 5 minutes. It was only 5 minutes but it felt like 50. It was one of the most stressful 5 minutes of my life!!!! 
TIP – always have dummy/bottle/breast ready and give it before plane takes off and before it starts landing. If this for some reason doesn’t work putting them on your knees on they belly works also. 

Stroller / Lightweight buggy

Yes you do need one. 

Until recently I didn’t understand why people bought lightweight buggies after spending so much money on the lovely prams/travel systems. Why would you spend all of the money on this gorgeous pram to later use this ugly stroller ??!!

 Few months ago we went to Poland and taking our pram was a nightmare !!! We had to buy a bag for it so it won’t get damage in the plane (this bag was as big as me!) Trying to carry it was like carrying a dead body ! We rented a car while being there; this has proven tricky as we had to find one with big enough boot to fit the pram in. All in all the experience wasn’t a good one. 

 We have just bought Mamas & Pappas City stroller. Light weight, compact, can fold it with one hand and it looks good as well:-) love it 

LETS CELEBRATE AT 23 WEEKS IT HAS FINALLY HAPPENED

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Time to celebrate ! I have been waiting for it, dreaming about it 23 weeks and it has finally happened ! Chloe has sleep through the night!!!! 

….. Kind of …. She didn’t feed at all (which is a result as she is a greedy little baby😁) but I had to get up few times to give her dummy. It’s a huge step though ! Now I just need to give her crash curse in how to put dummy in to the mouth and then I should be able to get undisturb sleep?

Ps naps in the cot are going very well, but I wasn’t able to let her sleep in it at night … She is to little ! (not really, but in my eyes she is to small) 

ITS NOT YOUR BABY FAULT ! Outrageous post … Mums don’t hate me ! 😊 

It prapobaly will be quite outrageous post, please other Mums don’t hate me, I just can’t listen to it any longer without saying something.

” Looking good while having new born baby ” if you are at home in your tracksuit covered in baby vomit with a greasy hair ITS YOUR CHOICE ! Yes it is possible to look good when you have a tiny baby! Yes it is much harder and requires an effort but IT IS POSSIBLE! 

Each of us make a a choice every single day : Will I was my hair ? Will I put a make up on ? Will I try to fit my bum in to those denims ? If you choose to be lazy (sorry for being blunt but it is laziness except some special circumstances) that’s fine. Honestly you don’t have to wear nice clothes or put make up on, it’s fine to live like that but DONT BLAME IT ON HAVING A BABY!!! It makes me so so so angry ! As I said it is much more difficult than before, and yes there are days where baby is to be blamed : didn’t sleep the whole night, been ill etc, but not every single day! 

As a mums we are all tired, we all have small babies who don’t sleep and cry, we are all sleep deprivated. Every single day we take a decision as to what we will do. I make the effort to get out of my loungewear and get dressed nicely, put my make up on, style my hair and go out!  Sometimes, usually after a bad night I choose not to do it and just stay in my pijamas doing the minimum that I have to …. But I don’t blame my baby !

I hear other mums say : you are lucky, your baby weight just disappeared ! Guess what ? Nothing just disappears !!! It’s not a fairytale. I have been working hard every morning making sure I go back to having my old body (or as close as I can get to it) every morning when you choosed to sit on the sofa I choose to work out. I hated it, I hated doing it, I dont want to do it and I don’t enjoy it; I knew that I wasn’t happy with my body and there was only one way to change it … Ps still can’t get in to my old jeans but it doesn’t bother me 😊

To recap : I don’t think that there is something wrong with not looking after yourself, I mean there is but it’s your choice and as far as you are happy it’s ok, but don’t blame it on  your Baby! 

Oh and it’s not the baby fouls that your house is a mess ! Not until they can crawl/walk and make a mess … Actually on the secon thought even then it’s not yet fault 😉 

   

  

AND JUST LIKE THAT I CAN SIT BABA BABA BABA

It’s funny how babies just start doing things. One day they can’t do it and the next one, just like that they do it, as if they knew all the time how to do it (maybe they are pretending that they can’t do it ? 😊) 

Me and Chloe have been practising how to sit for ages, with no real sign that she is getting better at it. Up until now the only way Chloe could sit for up to 10 seconds on her own, was when she was pretty much folded in half (she would lean so much forward). And then one day when we started practising she just sat and sat and sat. She can sit now !!! 😂

  

And just like that we went from saying or screaming aaaaaa or Aaaaaa or AAAAAAAA or AAAaaaAAAaaa to saying Ba Ba, Ba Ba. 

Did you notice that once baby discovers that it can do something it does it all of time? We went trough a faze of high pitch screaming for days no end, spitting for 3 days etc. Recently Chloe has had a small cough in the morning, once she discovered that she can cought she has been doing this pretend cough all the time !!! Eeegggghhhhh  eeeegggghhhh no Honey you do not have a cough !!!  ( and there is me going Yed Yes Yes my baby just learnt how to do a fake cough ! I am so proud of her, isn’t she clever ?😂)