LETS CELEBRATE AT 23 WEEKS IT HAS FINALLY HAPPENED

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Time to celebrate ! I have been waiting for it, dreaming about it 23 weeks and it has finally happened ! Chloe has sleep through the night!!!! 

….. Kind of …. She didn’t feed at all (which is a result as she is a greedy little baby😁) but I had to get up few times to give her dummy. It’s a huge step though ! Now I just need to give her crash curse in how to put dummy in to the mouth and then I should be able to get undisturb sleep?

Ps naps in the cot are going very well, but I wasn’t able to let her sleep in it at night … She is to little ! (not really, but in my eyes she is to small) 

ITS NOT YOUR BABY FAULT ! Outrageous post … Mums don’t hate me ! 😊 

It prapobaly will be quite outrageous post, please other Mums don’t hate me, I just can’t listen to it any longer without saying something.

” Looking good while having new born baby ” if you are at home in your tracksuit covered in baby vomit with a greasy hair ITS YOUR CHOICE ! Yes it is possible to look good when you have a tiny baby! Yes it is much harder and requires an effort but IT IS POSSIBLE! 

Each of us make a a choice every single day : Will I was my hair ? Will I put a make up on ? Will I try to fit my bum in to those denims ? If you choose to be lazy (sorry for being blunt but it is laziness except some special circumstances) that’s fine. Honestly you don’t have to wear nice clothes or put make up on, it’s fine to live like that but DONT BLAME IT ON HAVING A BABY!!! It makes me so so so angry ! As I said it is much more difficult than before, and yes there are days where baby is to be blamed : didn’t sleep the whole night, been ill etc, but not every single day! 

As a mums we are all tired, we all have small babies who don’t sleep and cry, we are all sleep deprivated. Every single day we take a decision as to what we will do. I make the effort to get out of my loungewear and get dressed nicely, put my make up on, style my hair and go out!  Sometimes, usually after a bad night I choose not to do it and just stay in my pijamas doing the minimum that I have to …. But I don’t blame my baby !

I hear other mums say : you are lucky, your baby weight just disappeared ! Guess what ? Nothing just disappears !!! It’s not a fairytale. I have been working hard every morning making sure I go back to having my old body (or as close as I can get to it) every morning when you choosed to sit on the sofa I choose to work out. I hated it, I hated doing it, I dont want to do it and I don’t enjoy it; I knew that I wasn’t happy with my body and there was only one way to change it … Ps still can’t get in to my old jeans but it doesn’t bother me 😊

To recap : I don’t think that there is something wrong with not looking after yourself, I mean there is but it’s your choice and as far as you are happy it’s ok, but don’t blame it on  your Baby! 

Oh and it’s not the baby fouls that your house is a mess ! Not until they can crawl/walk and make a mess … Actually on the secon thought even then it’s not yet fault πŸ˜‰ 

   

  

AND JUST LIKE THAT I CAN SIT BABA BABA BABA

It’s funny how babies just start doing things. One day they can’t do it and the next one, just like that they do it, as if they knew all the time how to do it (maybe they are pretending that they can’t do it ? 😊) 

Me and Chloe have been practising how to sit for ages, with no real sign that she is getting better at it. Up until now the only way Chloe could sit for up to 10 seconds on her own, was when she was pretty much folded in half (she would lean so much forward). And then one day when we started practising she just sat and sat and sat. She can sit now !!! πŸ˜‚

  

And just like that we went from saying or screaming aaaaaa or Aaaaaa or AAAAAAAA or AAAaaaAAAaaa to saying Ba Ba, Ba Ba. 

Did you notice that once baby discovers that it can do something it does it all of time? We went trough a faze of high pitch screaming for days no end, spitting for 3 days etc. Recently Chloe has had a small cough in the morning, once she discovered that she can cought she has been doing this pretend cough all the time !!! Eeegggghhhhh  eeeegggghhhh no Honey you do not have a cough !!!  ( and there is me going Yed Yes Yes my baby just learnt how to do a fake cough ! I am so proud of her, isn’t she clever ?πŸ˜‚) 

PLANING A WEDDING … No wait its CHRISTENING not a wedding !

Chloe is now 5 months so it’s time to Christen her. We decided to do it in Poland where I come from. I am not joking it’s like planning a mini wedding ! 

Trying to plan it means needing to spend hours on the Internet, to search, search and searchwhile having 5 month old baby to look after – it was proving very difficult and time consuming. 

You do want it to be special, doesn’t matter what you do or how much money you spent. You want it special and you do everything to make sure that it is like that, and all of it for someone who won’t have a clue what’s going on, nor will they appreciate all the work which went in to it. This makes it sound as if we do it for ourself not the babies 😊….. 

*Invitations*

This was so much more complicated and time consuming that I had imagined! It took forever to find something that I loved and that didn’t cost a fortune. I was very close to just sending an email saying : this is the date can you come or not ? Text me back:-)  I ended up designing it myself, which took so much longer . You see I am a Visual Merchandiser Manager at a very big fashion brand. That means that visually I am so picky, it needs to look great and nothing less than perfect will do (sometimes this is a real pain in the ass). 

Once invitations were posted I needed to keep chasing people because it’s too much to ask to RSVP on time. 

*VENUE*

 It’s exactly what I did 5 years ago when I was looking for my wedding venue. It needs to be perfect: not too big not to small, with private area, nice and smart but not too posh, and obviously at a good price. I think that I have written to every hotel and restaurant in Wroclaws Market Square ! Once that was sorted we had to choose the menu and then start the most important bit which is planning on how to decorate it. 

*DECORATIONS* 

This is the part I love ! Coming up with the idea on how I want the place to look like and how to make it happen. Surprisingly it was taking so much time to first figure out what I wanted to do and then to source everything needed. Who would think that finding decorations can be so difficult ???!!! I went for a white and pink scheme (that sounded very much like wedding) with balloons in the middle of the table as a centerpiece (eeehhhh like wedding again), very small sweet counter and lots of paper pom-poms. It all looks amazing in my head, let’s hope that it will look like that in real life! 

*CAKE*

 Loved looking on the Internet st all of those beautiful cakes. I could have ordered 10 different ones. Deciding on only one was proving very difficult!!! Very difficult  (I got it down to 5 I liked very much) It was so difficult that I ended up mixing bits from 5 of them and designing my own cake! Now if I had to order it in London it would have been fine, go to a cake maker and show what I want. Doing it through the email is a bit more difficultπŸ˜ƒ I had to sent lots of phots with arrows pointing at what I want where, photos with things crossed off and a very long email explaining everything….let’s see how it will look when I pick it up (if I pulled it of I am a genus) 

*DRESS*

I didn’t know that nowadays the only place to buy Christening outfit is Internet. As we all know photos and the real thing very often are totally different; after spending hours online I ended up buying 5 different dresses hoping that one of them will be good. Luckylie one of them is perfect (will post photos of Chloe in it later). 

Once I got all of that organised I had to start all over again; due to lots of guests not being able to come to Poland we decided that we need to have party in UK as well. So Chloe will have 2 parties πŸ˜€ and I have a lot to do to make it happen !!!! 

ANOTHER BIG STEP : Mummy emotional, Chloe oblivious.

We have had quite a few big steps happening recently. As I mentioned in previous posts we started introducing solid food, Chloe has moved from the carrycot to a pram. Now was the time to start with another milestone : starting to move Chloe in to her own room !!!! 😳 

Just thinking about it makes me scared and tearful πŸ™‚  Soon Chloe will be 6 months old (what???!!!! Where did the time go???) and that’s when by UK guidance they don’t have to sleep in this same room as you. I think that it will help with all of us sleeping much better and start preparing me slowly emotionally for what will come (maternity leave will end at some point)

We decided to start with Baby steps by putting Chloe for her naps in to her cot. We will do it for a week and then try to put her there for a night. Chloe knows her room and her cot pretty well as we always change her there, put her to play in her cot etc. that’s why we can start with naps straight away (Advice is that you start with leaving babies to play in the cot first)

 Surprisingly  after 5 min of looking round Chloe just went to sleep, not bothered by new bed, or how big deal it is for her Mum ! 

  

If this is such a big deal for me how the hell will I leave her there for the whole night ??? How will I sleep without her next to me?? And God only knows how will I leave her in the nursery??!!!! 

 Someone was a happy bunny after her nap  

Baby Chloe decides that I won’t sleep tonight !!!

I may have got 2 hours of Sleep last night. Why? Maybe ask Chloe as I don’t have a clue 😊 it might have been teething, struggling with doing poo ( sorry for being blunt 😁) or just a bad night. Whatever it was made Chloe cry every hour and it was taking while to calm her. Desperation for sleep was so big that I even took her to our bed and let her sleep with us ( this didn’t seem to help much (I may have lost my magic touch)) 

Let’s hope that whatever it was is gone now and I can sleep tonight ! 

BIG little step forwardΒ 

Today Chloe has been moved from her carrycot to the “proper pram” !!! I actually got tearful 😁 silly me. 

She is only 5 months ( babies meant to be in carrycot till they are 6 months old) but the carry cot was getting tight and Chloe was hating it! She is a very curious baby, she wants to stand on her little legs and look around all the time; the view from carrycot is rubbish so we took the decision to move on a bit earlier .

  

She loves it !!!!!! My little big girl 😍

ITS ALREADY BEEN 5 MONTHS πŸ˜³πŸ˜³

2 days ago Chloe has turned 5 months old !!!! 

  

She weights now 6,3 kg (  pretty much double her birth weight) and is pretty “tall” as we have to do a wardrobe change to 6-9 months clothes. 

 She is able now to :

– seat on her own for few seconds

– stand up on her own when I hold her hands.

– she only wants to stands

– she is blowing raspberries all the time 

– she stuck her tongue out

– she is eating solids and loves it ! (So far baby porridge and rice but if she likes that she will like everything) 

– put her feet in to her mouth (what a milestone 😊)

  

– she is such a happy and good baby

I can’t believe that it’s been already 5 months! 5 months of so much love and happiness that at times I think that I will burst. 5 month of worrying about the most ridiculous things (happening to Chloe). Can’t wait to see what tomorrow will bring , or shall I say what Chloe will bring 😊

CLOCK CHANGE and the babyΒ 

We all know how this small clock change messes us up ! It’s inly an hour but it sims like our body doesn’t know what is going on. Now imagine that you are only few months old 😊 this equals trouble ! 

Few days ago Chloe started getting up earlier which was messing up the whole daily routine ( sleeping every 2 hours). So this time change should work perfectly and bring our routine back on track. ( we normally get up at 7am and sleep every two hours, eat every 4  and go to bed by 7pm. Chloe started to get up at 6am which meant that I ether had to keep her up longer between naps which was making her really tired and cranky; or I had to keep her up longer in the evening which meant that  she was oils struggle to go to sleep. 

I decided to act. Plan of action ? Just stick to exactly this same routine and dosing things at the time we usually do it. It doesn’t matter that really is an hour earlier, just stick to the time. 

Plan to wake your baby up an hour earlier to start the day. That way your baby won’t notice any differece and the time change won’t upset your baby’s routine. 

Hope that all of you mums up there had an easy transition from wint r to summer time  πŸŒžπŸŒΈπŸŒΊπŸŒ»πŸŒ·